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Chile: lesbian prevented entry into supermarket for gender non conformity

At 3:30 p.m. on Sunday, a young woman tried to enter a supermarket in the Santiago Centro district. It was a weekend with (COVID) restrictions, but she and her partner went with all their papers in order. However, “the guard started looking at me strangely. He asked me for my license and when he looked at it he told me that I could not enter the premises ”, she said.

The guard, in addition to preventing her entry, treated her at all times as a “gentleman” because she was dressed in “masculine” clothes, although on multiple occasions she pointed out that she was a woman. In addition to this, a client verbally assaulted her for the same reason, saying that “if I was a woman I had to dress as a woman.” None of the guards or people present defended her.

In front of the entire supermarket and while the couple asked the customer not to get involved, he said: “Do you think that just because you are a woman I can’t hit you?”
(Translated)

A las 15:30 horas del día domingo, una joven intentó ingresar a un supermercado en la comuna de Santiago Centro. Era fin de semana con restricciones sanitarias, pero ella y su pareja, iban con todos sus papeles en regla. Sin embargo, “el guardia me empezó a mirar extraño. Me pidió mi carnet y al mirarlo me dijo que no podía ingresar al local”, dijo.

El guardia, además de impedir su ingreso, la trató en todo momento de “caballero” por estar vestida con ropas “masculinas”, aunque en múltiples ocasiones se le señaló que era mujer. Sumado a esto, un cliente la agredió verbalmente por el mismo motivo, diciendo que “si yo era mujer me tenía que vestir de mujer”. Ninguno de los guardias o personas presentes la defendió.

En frente de todo el supermercado y mientras la pareja le pedía al cliente que no se involucrara, este le dijo: “¿Crees que porque eres mujer no te puedo pegar?’”, recordó la afectada.
(Original)

Continue reading at: https://www.elmostrador.cl/braga/2021/01/14/discriminacion-lesbofobica-guardia-de-supermercado-impidio-el-ingreso-de-mujer-por-su-orientacion-sexual-y-expresion-de-genero/ (Source)

Chilean lesbicide: lesbian stabbed after ongoing harassment

In the early morning hours of Sunday, August 9 [2020], Cynthia Leslie Velásquez was stabbed after intervening in an argument and defending a girl from a man who was trying to sexually assault her. Chico Leslie – as she called herself and was known in her neighborhood – was a lesbian and died a few hours after the attack, in a hospital in Santiago, with a punctured lung.

So far nobody has been arrested in relation to her stabbing but several witnesses and close friends have pointed to a man known in the community as “El guatón Iván”. Paola says that Leslie had already experienced ongoing problems with him and that when he saw her on the street “he would yell things at her, her appearance, what she was like and that how she looked bothered him”.

Paola states that during the party Iván Poblete tried to assault another young woman and Leslie saw him. “I don’t know the details but I know that after things calmed down, the guy took advantage of the fact that she was not paying attention and attacked her from behind, stabbing her several times. After that, he and another person dragged her from the house and into the street, bleeding and unconscious. Someone asked for help and a group of Haitians arrived, who helped take her to the hospital. They filed a complaint with the Carabineros, but so far nothing has been known about the aggressor and there is still no arrest warrant against him”.
(Tanslated)

La madrugada del domingo 9 de agosto, Cynthia Leslie Velásquez fue apuñalada después de intervenir en una discusión y defender a una chica de un hombre que intentaba atacarla sexualmente. Chico Leslie -como escogió nombrarse y como la conocían en su barrio- era lesbiana y murió a las pocas horas del ataque, en un hospital de Santiago. Tenía uno de sus pulmones totalmente perforado.

Hasta ahora no hay detenidos por el caso, pero varios testigos y cercanos señalan a un hombre conocido en la comunidad como “El guatón Iván”. Paola dice que Leslie ya había tenido algunos problemas previos con él y que cuando la veía en la calle “le gritaba cosas, le molestaba su aspecto, como era ella y cómo se veía”.

La información que Paola maneja es que durante la fiesta Iván Poblete trató de abusar de otra joven y Leslie lo vio: “Desconozco en detalle cómo fue, pero sé que cuando se calmaron las cosas, el tipo aprovechó que se descuidó y la atacó por la espalda, con varias puñaladas. Luego de eso, él y otra persona la arrastraron desde la casa donde estaba hasta la calle, sangrando e inconsciente. Alguien pidió ayuda y llegó un grupo de haitianos, quienes ayudaron a llevarla al hospital. Ellos hicieron la denuncia ante Carabineros, pero hasta ahora no se sabe nada del agresor y aún no hay orden de detención en su contra”.
(Original)

Continue reading at: https://agenciapresentes.org/2020/08/13/asesinaron-a-punaladas-a-una-joven-lesbiana-en-santiago-denuncian-lesbicidio/ (Source)

Public statement on the lesbicide of Lesie Velásquez: https://www.docdroid.net/2oOeRcJ/comunicacion-publica-por-lesbicidio-de-leslie-pdf

The hierarchy of Sexual assault: A gender non-conforming lesbian’s struggle for justice

by Pippa Fleming
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I laid on a twin bed just inches off the ground weeping, “how the fuck did I get here?” as a hurricane hot flash and the smell of cat piss abruptly awakened me. Tears, sweat and funk permeated my sheets as I looked around the cluttered room feeling like a motherless child. As I rocked and held myself, I thought “death of a beloved and sexual assault feels the same.” First comes the shock and numbness, then come the people expressing empathetic sorrow and gestures of help. The body is laid to rest, then comes the repass with all that good soul food, while folks reminisce about the departed. When the last guest leaves, the door shutting behind them sparks the realization that you are alone and everyone else is going to get on with their lives, business as usual.

Call it intuition, a hunch or hindsight, I knew nothing was going to be done. I am a black gender non-conforming lesbian. Even with a narcissistic apology email from my perpetrator (that I’m going to share for shit’s and giggles) what could a black butch lesbian expect? I was disposable, nor was I a famous “queer” woman with a powerful platform like Ellen DeGeneres or Roxane Gay, sharing their stories of sexual assault… nor was I the wife of a famous basketball player like Steph Curry, who had a man arrested after making lewd comments about sexually assaulting her.

Continue reading: The hierarchy of Sexual assault: A gender non-conforming lesbian’s struggle for justice (source)